Twenty Great Date Ideas
In general, the more creative the date, the better. An original date is an unforgettable and surefire way to impress your partner. The first impression that the tone of the occasion, and there is no better way to ensure a fun day.
Girls are very comfortably sit and chat, as this is their natural element, so most people assume that this is actually what girls want to do in a day. But the fact is that you are probably not as comfortable and competent to carry on a conversation as it is (when it comes to the social sphere, women dominate in general ala Jordan vs. Portland in the Finals in ’95).
It follows that passive data (aka dinner dates) are often a bad idea.
1) Everyone has them, you can think that you schlubs unlike any other she want from are. You are a man of few words, but lots of action, after-all.
2) It puts you in a situation where you can talk too much. You want a secret as long as possible to stay and usually dinner dates are boring and provide many opportunities for you to spill your guts about yourself and your boring philosophies. Communication with women requires a very different skills. Than communicating with people Women focus on feelings and sound over verbal content and conclusions, and misunderstandings are bound during the first few days, occur. I recommend dinner dates only if you three or more women a week (once you’ve dated a lot of women, you can change the game, but you will, you deserve it). If you really well rather than just talk on connection, passive data back their attraction.
3) It provides the framework that will pay you for your attention. This is extremely dangerous. With so many gold diggers in search of a man and a lifestyle enhancement “(or just girls, the men to use for the excitement of data), the less money you spend on the day, the better, this way his from the beginning very clear that you do not support searching for someone, and that you have a great time without dropping a few pesos on some trendy new French-Japanese fusion restaurant., if she insists on dinner at an upscale restaurant or of your rustic dates taken away, run away – she wants a salary and not a friend Homemade blue cheese burgers on the George Foreman should delight rather than bore your day..
Active data are better than take passive data because they out of their comfort zone., The girl Men enjoy shooting action, which is quite natural, and understand fortunately many women naturally. So instead of a boring, expensive and above all very average dinner and a movie, try these ideas out:
1) Mini-Golf or Batting Cage Most women do not have a mini-golf played since they were very young. It is an incredibly effective date. Make clap your hands on your date with the putter, while in the middle of the stroke it!
2) comedy show Laugh endorphins normally reserved for after-sex.
3) Wine Bar Some large cities have upscale classy bars where only wine is served. Women love these bars.
4) Walk along the beach An old standby that usually precedes making out on the sand.
5) Elvis impersonator search one of these guys play in a bar chicks dig the King!
6) Air Hockey/Arcade- This depends on the individual taste of your date, but air hockey is really fun.
7) clothes shopping at the mall (for you, not for them) – Do you dress like a Ken doll their personal. Women love this date.
8) hookah bar-If they have a funky little girl and in unconventional settings, hookah bars make great dates.
9) Park / Botanical Garden/Picnic- Use., The power of the beauty of nature to your advantage
10) Amusement Parks
11) Walk / Nature Walk
12) Old School Ice Cream Shop Some cities have old-style malt shoppes great milkshakes to serve.
13) Whirlpool (with party wine glasses and a bottle of wine) – This date also works when you sneak a bottle of wine to the movies. Go to a party store and get two plastic wine glasses. Pair it with a bottle of wine and take it to the neighborhood spa (I go to a posh neighborhood and jump over the fence into the community hot tub, performance may very).
14) Lookout Most cities (sorry Midwest) a vantage point off the beaten path, where you get a view of the whole city and its surrounding skyline. Take your date to places that you take on your explorations, it will happen delight in your discoveries.
15) Long Road Trip (Indian casino or through mountainous terrain va)
16) star gazing with telescope viewing camping in the garden for the night.
17) errands-Just go about your daily errands (pick up dry cleaning, supermarket, post office box) and have their day together. This is my personal favorite date, and it is very productive!
18) Go Karaoke Only if you are willing to sing.
20) Paint to win your own ceramic / DIY art store-Make her a piece of sticky colorful pottery and her heart.
Random Dating Tips:
It is good to take a girl out of their element. This forces them to trust in your leadership and provides them with a memorable story that they can not wait to tell their friends, when you fall off. Use the following rule of thumb: Take classy girls in bars and trashy girls, trashy classy bars. It will be fun for you to see her reaction, and fun, to experience something extraordinary for them.
Never tell your date wherever you go. You just tell her to wear comfortable shoes (eg NOT heels, as most girls who are on data have a tendency to wear) and to “look cute.” This adds to the mystery and anticipation builds. Women love the feeling of anticipation.
You know that you have had a great day, if: 1) You have a tremendous amount about your experience and date, 2) you know very little about you, but still feels very comfortable when around you.
If it gets the first date, they do not kiss (you are going to wait it out until the second are). This also builds anticipation. The only time a kiss is acceptable on the first day is when you think that they do not have a good time. In this way, the kiss acts as a test if you kiss her, and she is in it, that is, she is very interested, just reserved. If you want to kiss her and she pulls back quickly, you can safely assume you’ve just been on your first and last day.
At the end of the date that you never know if you are going to call her, or if you want to see her again. Just look deep into her eyes and say: “I had a great time with [Activity] with you, thanks..” Then back in your car and drive away. You think you’re cooler than James Dean sipping a Singapore Sling on an arctic glaciers. You call a few days after your appointment to arrange other to come together in the following week. Your data is once a week for at least the first six months (unless they ask to see you, of course). Again, this is all apparently build on the pre-wired anticipation mechanism in the DNA of women everywhere.